From the age of 3-4, when the personality is formed, they should closely monitor the child's behavior and development, and from the age of 7-8, when the child begins to understand moral concepts, they should begin to teach him moral values.
The moral upbringing that parents do not give their children in time will not be taught to them in school or in society. Therefore, parents should pay special attention to the education and upbringing of their children at all ages. What points should parents pay attention to during this period?
1. Parents should set a good example for their children. It is natural for parents of children who constantly lie, blaspheme, and expose the weaknesses and faults of others to their children. For this reason, fathers and mothers need to be careful when speaking to their children. If we want to present to society a child with good moral qualities, then we need to say nice words.
2. There must be a method of upbringing based on love. Appreciating and loving your child will help him to embrace you. He will love you and show you love. He will carry out your commands with love. What if you try to teach your child moral values with anger and resentment? then your child will not only listen to you, but will try to take revenge on you.
3. Moral values should not be presented as a "chain of prohibitions." Because such an approach will cause the child to react harshly to moral values. Parents should explain to their children the need for moral values and the importance of acquiring them in everyday life with reasonable and logical explanations. In general, the use of force in matters of training and education is not the right method. This type of upbringing has a negative impact on the formation of the child in all spheres of life.
4. Mother and father must act together. The mother must correct the father's wrong method of upbringing. And the father should not correct the mother's wrong upbringing. They must work together to raise their children. Fathers and mothers should not take different positions in upbringing. Because it will confuse the child.
5. Good friends should be chosen for children. A bad friend or environment is one of the biggest obstacles to a child's moral development. Because the positive behaviors that the family tries to instill in the child disappear under the influence of bad friends. Therefore, pay special attention to who your children are friends with.
6. Do not leave the child alone. While it is a mistake to try to control your children's misbehavior, it is also a mistake not to take their mistakes seriously. If the child's mistakes are not corrected and warned, the child will think that this is normal behavior and will begin to repeat these wrong steps. He will take these steps not only against his family at home, but also against his friends in society and adults. Because her parents did not warn her in time.
7. You need to protect your child from the harms of the media, especially the Internet. The "internet" and "television slavery" that have become a disease today are also dragging children into a moral collapse. In particular, the levelless actions of people who are presented to children as examples in TV series, and their revealing clothes have a negative impact on the development of children's personality. In this regard, always monitor your child's use of these tools.
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