Pain is part of development. Sometimes life closes its doors to us because it's time to move on. This is also a good sign. Because we usually act when circumstances force us to. When things go wrong, remember that no pain comes without a purpose. Stay away from what hurts you. But never forget the lesson he taught you. Your struggle does not mean that you have failed. Every great success requires a dignified struggle. Something good takes time. Be patient, believe in yourself. Everything will take its place. It may not happen immediately. Remember that there are two kinds of pain: one hurts you and the other changes you. Instead of trying to fight him for the rest of your life, give him a chance to change you.
Everything that happens in life is temporary. When it rains, you know that sooner or later it will stop. Every time you hurt, the wound heals. After dark there is always light. This is announced to you every morning at the opening. He tells you that night is not eternal. If you are feeling well, enjoy it. This will not always be the case. If you feel bad, do not worry, do not worry, because it is not permanent. Just because life is light and comfortable doesn't mean you can't laugh. Just because something bothers you doesn't mean you can't smile. Every moment gives you a new beginning or a new end. Every second you get a second chance. Just use it. Anxiety and complaints do not change anything. The one who complains the most gets the least success. It is better to do something big and fail than to try to achieve everything without doing anything. If you lose, nothing is over. When you complain, everything is over. If you believe in something, keep trying. Whatever the outcome, realize that true happiness comes only when you put aside your grievances and thank yourself for the problems you do not have. The scars you have are a testament to your strength. Don't be ashamed of the scars left by life on you. The scars show that there is no more pain, the wound has healed. It shows that you have overcome the pain, learned a lesson, become stronger, moved forward.
A scar is a sign of victory. Don't let the scars capture you. Do not allow them to frighten you. Start looking at them as a sign of strength. Jalaleddin Rumi said that light enters your wounds from inside. The strongest hearts have emerged from suffering. The faces of the world's leading people are full of scars. Look at your scars as a slogan: “Yes, I did it! I was able to name it. I have scars to prove it. Now I have a chance to be stronger. Every little fight is a step forward. If you want to taste something, go to the end. Or it makes no sense at first. It may seem that you have lost your stability, that you have lost your peace of mind at some point, or even that you have lost your mind. You may need to eat less, sleep less, and change your peace of mind. You will have to sacrifice things that are familiar to you. They will laugh at you. It can also seem like loneliness. Loneliness is actually a gift given to you to be able to do many things. You will get the aura you need. What is left on the ground is a test of your endurance. This is to find out how much you want to reach your goal. If you want it, you will do it despite the disagreements and failures. You will feel better every step of the way. So it can't even occur to you. You will understand that fighting is not a barrier, it is just a way. Negative behavior of other people is not your problem. Don't lose confidence when bad people surround you. Smile when others want to defeat you. This is the easiest way to maintain your individual enthusiasm. Continue to be yourself when others say unpleasant things about you. Never allow others to change you. You can't put everything in your heart. Even if it comes to you personally. Do not think that people are doing something for you. What they do is only for themselves. Most importantly, never try to change for someone who wants to make an impression on you by saying that you are not good enough. Change then, it will make you better, it will lead you to a brighter future. People will talk anyway, no matter what you do or how well you do.
There is no need to worry about others. If you believe in something, don't be afraid to fight for it. It is possible to have great power by overcoming the impossible. If something has to happen, it will happen. You gain strength when you stop shouting, complaining, and smiling and valuing your life. There is a happiness hidden in every struggle. But you have to be able to open your heart and mind to see them, you have to be ready for it. You can't force everything to happen. You can just run. At some point, you need to let go of the situation and let what is destined for you happen. Love your life, trust your intuition, take risks, find happiness by losing something, take advantage of experiences. This is a long journey. You need to set aside your worries. As a result, you will get where you need to go. Keep moving. Don't be afraid to be disappointed. Don't be afraid to fall in love again. Don't let the scratches on your heart swell. Understand that power is growing every day. Understand that courage is commendable. Find things in your heart that will make others smile. Understand that you do not need to have many people in your life. So do not try to be friends with more people. Strengthen yourself for difficult days. Remember that what happens in life is based on order. Admit it when you're wrong, learn from it. Take things in stride and try not focus too much on the problem.