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Causes of coldness in the relationship

You don't love the person you once loved like crazy, and you want to end this relationship. Have you ever wondered what caused this great love to end? The thought "it's already mine" After a pleasant first few months, many couples begin to misunderstand, "It's already mine, it's mine." And this continues until one of the parties says, "It no longer makes sense for us to be together." But think of your relationship as a baby. After looking at your baby for a few years, do you put it aside and say, "It's going to grow on its own anyway"?

Possess your love and try to do something for her at every stage. Take an interest in each other, miss each other, share your thoughts, sit down and discuss problems without making them big and insoluble. In short, both of you try. Do not divide the work You are also nervous ... From the moment you start living in the same house with your loved one, he thinks that all the housework (washing clothes, cleaning the house, washing dishes, etc.) is only for you, even though your work is as hard as his. After marriage, roles are shared in many families, and housework is left to the woman as usual. But you should know that this is a matter for both of you. Instruct your husband to do some housework.

Came home without returning to the market?

Never go to the market instead. Not so good at cleaning the kitchen? Not bad, let the sheep clean. Let him realize that he has a number of important responsibilities. Otherwise, all the good you see will cool you down after a while. Not to get rid of the shadow of the ex-girlfriend Sometimes the shadow of a past relationship can overshadow today's happy love. "Is my new boyfriend the right person?

Or am I back to my ex-boyfriend who still works for me?" Such doubts begin to poison the love that lasts beautifully after a while. Most likely, the other side will also get bored and end their relationship. If you are hesitant about your ex-boyfriend, our advice is to swallow it, because you can not wash twice in the same water. Give yourself and your new lover a real chance. Never try to compare your new lover with the past. Not accepting it as it is Having different thoughts, interests, plans for the future, dreams, worldviews often lead to separation. Your character does not have to be the same. For example, you are happier, but he is calmer. But if your outlook on life and the world, your tastes, and your plans do not match, your work will be very difficult.

4 November 2020
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