Mistake 1 - Trying to meet your ex-girlfriend after separation
Trying to talk to your lover for the last time is one of the biggest mistakes you can make. First of all, you don't know how he will behave when he sees you. It may have already forgotten you and continues your life. It will hurt you to witness this first hand. Unfortunately, separation is like trying to get rid of a bad addiction - especially if you haven't finished it. You may feel obsessed with your ex-girlfriend in the early days of separation. Being aware of this will help you overcome these emotions. It will give time to heal to completely disengage with it.
Mistake 2 - Trying to survive this period alone
You may no longer have a boyfriend or spouse, but you still have family and friends around you. Sharing how you feel with them helps you get through this period more quickly and easily.
Mistake 3 - To blame your ex-girlfriend for everything
Putting all the blame on it and revealing all its negative features may make you feel good, but it is very important for your personal development to accept that you have made mistakes in your relationship.