There are some things that make a person feel sorry for the past and always use the word "I wish". This prevents a person from living in the present. One must not forget that his present condition, after a while, will be considered his past. Therefore, it is not too late to throw good memories of the past.
1. I lived not for myself, but for others.
At least set a goal. Find out what you want from this life. Please work on it. Remember, if you don't have a goal, you will always work for the goals and aspirations of others.
2. I have worked quite a lot.
Life is not just about making money. There are so many people who live happily and independently, even if they have little income. It is said that a person spends his youth to earn money, then grows old and spends his earnings on health.
3. I hid my feelings.
I know that sometimes you see that maybe people you don't know are brave enough to come and take you away right in front of you out of pride. You blamed the man, not yourself. It was as if the whole world had to keep for you forever that you did not approach in silence out of pride.
4. I didn't keep in touch with friends.
We are always waiting for them to remember us. Often, people who complain of carelessness are themselves careless. Not everyone in this world has an obligation to take care of you. Even good friends who see your silence and selfishness will eventually leave you alone.
5. I did not allow myself to be happy.
Why do people always complain? Why don't they even admit that they are satisfied for some reason? They are right, sometimes a person brags about his misfortunes when he has no excuse to be happy. Appreciate what you have today. Thank you for it and use it worthily.
6. I didn't want to have a child.
Sometimes people delay getting married, then ignore the issue of children, claiming that they are young and still have to live. He tends to animals. Then he grows old and sees that no one needs him. He is no longer interested in her because he is old. Even thinking about it hurts.
7. I have always avoided the problem.
In this world, man cannot travel with everyone. Of course, he will have enemies. Either he will be hostile to someone, or they will do it with him. If a person runs to the top of a mountain, he will face a problem. The problem strengthens the person. A person with a weakened immune system can be found everywhere.
8. I did not use the necessary opportunities in life.
Yes, today we are postponing it because we still have time. We spend a lot of time thinking about something, and we miss that opportunity. Opportunity is something that may shine once in a person's life. That is why it is necessary to seize the opportunities.
9. I have always hurt people who love me.
There are many such people, and perhaps we have this character. We reject people who care about us and love us. We treat them rudely. We do not show love. We are afraid to express our feelings. Believe me, over time, even people who show a warm attitude to your coldness will be indifferent to you. In time, you will no longer need to be warm.
10. I spent little time with my children.
There are some people who are waiting for their children to reach the age of 18 to bring them up. However, they had to think about their babies before they were born. Wealth has come and gone. The child must see the care and love of his parents. The child was not born to be a slave. He is also a personality. He also needs time. Or it will be too late.