If you are considering having a second child, there are a few things to consider ...
- Are you mentally and physically preparing?
Mentally, you already have a child who needs your time and attention. Are you ready to divide your time and attention without making it difficult for both you and your child? Physically, your body has undergone a lot of changes after the first child, are you ready for them again? Are you ready to go through the same paths mentally and physically once again?
- Have you considered your job or career?
If you are a working mother, you had a career break in time for your first child. Are you ready to do this again? Do you believe that after taking your second baby in your arms, you can return to your full time job? You can restart and reshape your career by choosing options that provide flexibility to work from home. Or you can make a decision about quitting your job with your second child. Make sure of your decision so that you don't regret it later.
- Have you prepared your first child for the second child's arrival?
If your child is old enough to understand this topic, you should gradually prepare it for the arrival of the second child. Make it an inclusive experience for him. No matter how strange or funny it is, always answer the question. Remember, this will be a big change for him too. Talk about how great it would be to be brothers and the wonderful things that both can do. Never cause your first child to feel jealous or competitive.